I have a partner though and I do have that strongly loyal streak. While we come off as being incredibly warm and open, we can actually be very private. Thank you for satisfying our couriosity. I really hope that one day we will get back together forever and everrrr when we are ready for the relationships. And he has opened up to me about some things in his past, but I don't want to get that confused with the INFJ just being an approachable person.
If they are doing something wrong, they want to know.
There was an instant connection between us, and your article was so helpful in understanding why. The ENFP gets a lot of their personal satisfaction from observing the happiness of others, and so is generally determined to please and serve their partners. I was the quintessential stereotype of enfp flitting from relationship to relationship. Until this hits their emotional center and they can translate the information empathetically, they tend to keep it to themselves. ENFPs long for passionate relationships that foster growth in both partners.