The problem is that we usually love others the way we like to feel love. Buy him a present. Men cannot resist a woman with a smile. All you can do is bring your best. The whole thing is so backwards. He wants to feel like his efforts were a success—this applies to everything he does from taking you out for a fancy dinner to taking out the trash. If he takes you out on a nice date, acknowledge and appreciate him for it and tell him you had an amazing time.
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6 Ways To Be The Best Girlfriend He’s Ever Had
A trap that many people in relationships fall into is blaming their partner when problems arise. I have a personal example for this. Don't bring up old issues or fights if they're already solved. A guy friend once lamented to me that his girlfriend had put on about 15 pounds since they started dating and canceled her gym membership. Invite him over to your place, or find a way to spend time with him alone or together with close friends. Article Info wikiHow is a wiki similar to Wikipedia, which means that many of our articles are written collaboratively. Don't whine about things every time you are with him because that will make him depressed.