Don't choose to be with someone because you think that they chose you and now you have some duty to do the same. Most of the time, that ends up in a confusingly short-lived failed relationship. Don't be afraid to say no to him or anyone else in the future. If he is the really funny type, he may be out of your league. First, before you even decide who is and who is not in your league, there is a subconscious process we all go through where we define how we view ourselves. But it's definitely possible from what you've written that he just likes you and wants to share things with you an ebook is actually a rather thoughtful gift, not as tacky as showering a woman with gold bracelets so she won't lose interest or something. But to my surprise he not only called but he also wanted to take me out on a date again.
Have you met his friends?
Stop Saying He (Or She) Is Out Of Your League
How can you find out? At first, I thought people who were ridiculously attractive were out of my league. Do you have delightful, intellectual debates that stir you? We are all beings with worth, beauty and charm, even though our insecurities may tell us otherwise. If you're thinking this right now, then you're still in the mindset of League Theory. I was out of his league, he'd acknowledged that, but apparently our incompatibilities were significant enough for him that me being a 'catch' didn't outweigh our differences. Because if you're not comfortable it's your job to communicate that, and it's his job to respect your boundaries.