We are very good listeners, good at drawing people out, enjoy substantive conversation. In her book, Dembling talks about her own experience with her extroverted best friend in high school. I'm extremely loyal and reliable. When it comes to dating, the introverts in relationships included in Dembling's research were pretty equally divided between dating other introverts or dating extroverts. As a result, Dembling says, they have the advantage of starting to develop a connection before they even have their first conversation — and those first conversations will be more substantive and flow more easily once they do speak. To make things a little less confusing, though, there are some things extroverts want all introverts to know. While you can, of course, have the qualities of both, usually people feel they identify more with one than the other.
Extroverts sparkle, introverts glow.
9 things all extroverts want all introverts to know
In her Psychology Today excerpt, Dembling shares quotes from Lynne and David, who she spoke to about their respective marriages to extroverts. More From Thought Catalog. Those types of chicks are more fun. But that doesn't mean they can't hold a conversation. How to find cheap eats wherever you travel.