I was a spirited, cool, unusual 50, I said desperately. During the week that I was 40, my mailbox filled up. Which must be because there are scores of white men dating online — good looking, moneyed, strong-shouldered. We'd give each other a knowing look and lie. Tia, I feel your pain as a single educated Black women in NYC I am convinced that every guy out here is gay until proven straight.
Also there is a definite trick to the whole thing about attracting and choosing worthy men.
My mid-life adventures in online dating
As Jack keeps telling me, men are visual creatures. As someone who found her significant other online, it's hard for me to understand why some people -- particularly women -- won't take the plunge. Black men were few and far between and none wanted to date a black woman. He was doing the work but it was hard. But really, it's just being honest about what you want.