Thank you for giving us ideas on how to determine whether our date is a waster. Yes you will need to go on A LOT of dates to find the right person so have very low expectations. The guy lives 2 hours away is this really going to turn into something? Its just hard when u have kids and dont get out too much and online is your only viable option to date and then you see all these guys on a dating website yet u never seem to quite make it to the date part lol. The players of the field have made it very hard to flirt as a lot of women have become wise the to over zealous player who wants to just get in her pants and as a result shuts down as soon as a genuine flirt is used.
Here are some more tips:
Trying to understand the mindset of the online timewasters.
I think men and women online are generally talking to quite a few people. Then I felt bad and I was like should I call him but for what? Its just this has happened or variations of this has happened so many times to me. We meet someone new and invest our time and energy into getting to know them only to learn that they really were never interested at all, they were just passing the time or having fun or feeding their ego AND wasting your time. Actually, that will probably be your experience on the most part. Knowing this will make it easier to move quickly to the next profile and avoid wasting precious time.